quarta-feira, 7 de setembro de 2011

How to attract and keep a girl interested on the dance floor in clubs or pubs




In this article, I will be talking about specific dance floor techniques that took me very long to learn through trial and error but I can now divulge. This includes the physical technique that every man must know in the battle of the dance floor, once you use this technique on the dance floor with any girl you are dancing with, she won’t leave you the whole night.First of all make sure that you always warm up before you go out to pubs or night clubs. It doesn’t matter how good you get because no matter what, every time I have tried to open a conversation with a girl before really warming up and getting myself in state, the conversation falters. Warming up is even more important when going natural on a girl or have spent the whole day in doors with limited contact or conversation with other people.Dancing with a girl on the dance floor is not always a guarantee that she will stay with you. I have lost the number of times that women have left me after dancing with me to one song. I always wondered what I was doing wrong so during that time, I experimented with different techniques to try and keep girls interested on the dance floor. By interested, I mean dancing with her for sometime until YOU decide to bounce her somewhere else like to have a drink or even get a kiss close if that’s what you want. The key is to make her interested enough to stay with you the entire night.What’s the key on the dance floor?Always mirror a girl’s dancing energy and enthusiasm once you have started dancing. Psychologists in NLP call mirroring as the establishment of rapport between two people at a subconscious level. When two people are in sync together, they do the same movements and actions. Have you ever noticed how you sometimes do the same things at exactly the same time with another person, for example your girlfriend? Maybe you both yawned at the same time and then had a laugh about it? You probably thought that the whole thing was incidental? Well it wasn't, that is what mirroring is all about. (Yawning is not probably the best example, since the last thing you want is the girl yawning with you). So how can you mirror the girl on the dance floor?Simple-Do the same dance moves and movements as her. If you have ever noticed two girls who are best friends dancing together on the dance floor, you might have noticed sometimes how many times they act like two lesbians grinding away. They always seem to be in sync with each other, in their moves and energy as they giggle, carried away in a naughty party mood. They are mirroring and pacing each other.This is the same exact technique you have to use in order to keep a girl on the dance floor. Just imagine you are her lesbian friend and deploy that mind frame with her. Unfortunately she probably will be pulling off her girly dance moves but don’t trip, just copy whatever she is doing and then have fun with it. Imagine what her lesbian girlfriend would do with her and do it to her and with her.When I first started to deploy the Lesbian mind frame technique on the dance floor, it was pure magic because all the girls that I danced with having that frame all started hooking for the entire night. Once you have established that energy connection through pacing her reality, now you can lead her.This is where you can either bounce her to the back of the club for a kiss close (I deliberately emphasize back of the club because I never kiss a girl on the dance floor in full view of everyone) or go have a drink. Before discovering this mirroring technique, girls used to leave me on the dance floor after like 2 or 3 minutes of a song but now, I can keep a girl on the dance floor like for 10 minutes in a self-indulged blissful orgy between two people having a laugh together.That is the key to keeping a girl interested on the dance floor. Go have funSome people might think "This is stupid! I'm going to get caught or look silly! She MUST see me doing the same movements! This is ridiculous!” Don’t trip. Most girls NEVER NOTICE! Instead, they feel more comfortable and relaxed and connected to you, and eventually (that's why you even bothered, right?)-more attracted to you.Just follow her rhythm and energy, don’t try and impress her with your dance moves-this is where I used to fail because they I was too busy trying to impress girls with my cool dance moves, busy supplicating. Key points to remember• Always aim for a bounce within 5-10 minutes of dancing with a girl if you want her that night and do at least 2 bounces. This is especially important when trying to get a girl from her group straight away. The best isolation initially should be to the bar where her friends can see her. • Physically escalate with a lot of hand holding, and hugging if you want a same night lay • Do loads of bounces and location changes either within the venue or outside • Sometimes if I want to be really evil, I have other NLP techniques that I use such as future pacing the seduction (pure gold).


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